This photo was taken on Mother’s Day with my parents and my brother and sister-in-law.

Then in May Mom went into the hospital because of a fall. She has had trouble with her heart and blood pressure for years, and has been in and out of the hospital. So we thought this was just another in her long list of hospital stays. But it wasn’t. This one lasted longer, and Mom’s organs started acting more and more like they were almost 91 years old (which they are). After 20 days in the hospital (with a brief 3 day reprieve in the middle), it was decided she needed more care and we moved her to Shorehaven in Oconomowoc. It was only a few days later that we had to call hospice in. During this time Mom and Dad decided he should move into assisted living at Shorehaven to be near her. Big changes!
My Mom and Dad have always been my biggest encouragers, especially when it came to quilting (next to Mike of course). So when they moved into Shorehaven they wanted their kids, grandkids and great grandkids to go through their condo and take some items to remember them by. And that’s what we did. Then we would visit them and tell of the wonderful treasures we’d found. It made them so happy. What a blessing!
Without hesitation I chose Mom’s cookbook.

The spine is held together with mailing tape and it holds so many memories. My Grandmother gave it to Mom at her bridal shower, and Mom recorded it on the inside cover of the book, along with a few other notes.

Mom also wrote some of her Mother’s favorite recipes inside the covers.

What a blessing! And Mom was delighted that it was my first choice. On subsequent trips through their condo, I was reminded of how supportive they were of my quilting addiction. They had quilts hanging in every room. In the front door area:

In the living room (along with some of my niece Kaitlin’s anatomical art):

Above the dining room table (along with a beautiful painting by my Aunt Hazel):

In the bedroom there were two (and yes, the roses are another piece by Aunt Hazel):


There were even 2 quilts hanging above the bathtub! The one on the left is special because Mom made it. When I first learned to quilt I decided to take a class on free form appliqué. I talked her into taking it with me and, to my knowledge, it’s the only quilt she ever made.

When Betsy and Sommer (my DIL and granddaughter) went on their treasure hunt, they chose a few things I’d made. These wall quilts were hanging in the closet, ready to be swapped out with the seasonal ones that were up.

And this afghan was one I made years before I got into quilting. I first crocheted the afghan, then I cross-stitched the butterflies on it. I made two like this ~ one for my parents and one for Mike’s. That was the end of my crocheting infatuation. I was so pleased Sommer liked it.

As we set up Mom’s room at Shorehaven I had to include a few quilts there from their condo. The Oconomowoc quilt was made for a challenge held at the Ben Franklin store, and it has started many good conversations with the dear people taking care of Mom (they have all been wonderful!).

And of course Mom needed a quilt to snuggle under on her bed. Here she is with Mike and the Lone Star quilt I made them many years ago.

A few days after we got Mom settled in her room, Dad moved into his apartment. When he was president of the Wisconsin SAR, I commemorated the time he served with a quilt ~ and that had to be the first one hung in his living room.

On his bed is a pieced quilt and above it the Lake Sinisssippi quilt ~ with the family photos on the back facing out 😊.

They’ve acquired quite a collection over the years.
Just a few months ago my parents were living in their own condo, preparing their own meals, paying their bills, and doing all the normal things of life ~ while in their 90s! Things can change so quickly. The photograph at the top of this post was from May. This one is from June in Mom’s room at Shorehaven when our grandkids from Washington, Hanna and Will, were here.

They had a wonderful time with their great grandparents, and we are all grateful for every moment we have together! The amazing thing is that when Mom went on hospice they took her off of ALL the medications she was taking, and put her on morphine and one other for anxiety. She had a week of being “loopy”, and then she started feeling better. This past month she’s been breathing better, participating in activities and telling everyone about her love for her Savior ~ and where she is going! The nurses and staff, along with all of us, are amazed!
This past Wednesday Mom and Dad took a walk down to see Lac Labelle with Kurt and Mary.

In the afternoon Shorehaven had a “camping” event that Sommer and Trey were happy to attend with me. It was a joyful time!


We thought she was leaving us for heaven in the beginning of July, but we are truly blessed to be enjoying Mom and Dad still. Each day is a gift! Praise the Lord!
































































